Your ex boyfriend won't talk to you and all you really want is to get him back. It seems impossible, doesn't it? How can you possibly win back his love and make him want to be with you again if the man won't even answer your calls? As hopeless as this all seems, it's really not. There are ways you can bridge the distance between the two of you without pushing him even farther away.
Since your ex boyfriend won't talk to you, calling him repeatedly isn't going to do any good. In fact, it's actually damaging your chances of getting him back. He doesn't want to talk with you right now so stop trying to reach out to him. He's not going to respond. The first thing you should be doing, starting right this minute, is dropping all attempt to contact him. It's not going to work regardless of how often you call or the emotional voicemails you are leaving.
By the same token, trying to get him to respond to you via email or text message is no better. It's just as intrusive and he's going to feel just as pressured if you take this route instead of calling. You need to pull back and give him some time and space. That means give up sending any message in any form for the next few weeks.
As much as we, as women, like to fix things as soon as possible, men aren't always that way. This is especially true of relationships. Men sometimes just need some time so they can absorb and sort through what they're feeling. When their emotions are right at the surface, as they are after a break up, they don't want to try and express them. They'd rather take some time alone to work through things. This actually works to your benefit. It allows your boyfriend time to not only come to terms with the end of the relationship but it also ensures he'll miss you.
Once a few weeks have passed it's time to see if your ex boyfriend won't talk to you still. Be cautious with contacting him again. Call him and if he doesn't pick up, leave a short message, just say you hope he's well and you'd like to talk. If he doesn't return that call within a day or two, send him a short note, either through text message or email just wishing him well and telling him how you enjoyed your time with him. That should be enough to get him to open back up a bit and from there you can work on rebuilding the bond that's been lost.
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