If you lost your man because he left you for another gal, you probably want to know how you can steal him away and be a couple again.

Or if your ex is now seeing someone else, this can put a wrench in any plans you had of the two of getting back together.

Although most men who would cause a woman to read an article like this are not worth the effort, you probably want some tips anyway. So here's what works as far as getting a man's attention back where it should be: on you.

Remind Him You're a Goddess by Looking Like One

Men are intensely visual creatures, therefore your appearance is very important. Especially now, when you are trying to get his focus back on you.

Don't do anything too crazy, since you never want to leave the impression that you are trying too hard in this department. Little things can make a world of difference: highlights in your hair, a couple new outfits that are fun and not your usual style, etc.

Have fun with it, but don't obsess.

Less is More: Playing the Man Game

The Man Game is very simple: you get his attention in some way (usually subtle), and then cut him off and ignore him once his interest has piqued.

This method works without fail. Men are hunters by nature as evolution and nature made them this way. So you can never make it too easy for a guy; you have to be a constant challenge.

The rules to this little game become even more crucial as you get further into your mission to steal the guy back.

Same Place, Same Time: Yes I'm Here, No You Can't Talk to Me

One night can change the face of this whole situation if you play your cards right. All you need to do is get an opportunity where you're at the same place at the same time: a function, party for a mutual friend, etc.

Doesn't really matter what the event or location is, as long as you have a real reason to be there. Otherwise, you just look sad and desperate.

What really matters is two things: make sure you look fabulous, and have a handsome date with you.

Rules of Engagement

When you're trying to get a man back, there's rules you need to follow closely if you're going to be around him.

Be friendly, but not overly so. A warm smile and a few short words are all you should give him. Wave if your eyes meet, say hello in a very casual and dismissive manner if you happen to pass each other.

The key is to not let him have open access to you. This is why you should never walk up to him and initiate contact. You have to make him initiate, and then only speak for a minute or less before you make an excuse to walk away.

Focus on You, and Eventually He Will As Well

Your energy should not go into stalking him or his new lady friend or anything along these lines. Your energy and efforts need to put poured into something way more important: you and your life, and how you are going to make both more fantastic.

Take advantage of him not being around right now; you are given time and freedom to improve yourself in ways you weren't able to when you were stuck in girlfriend mode.

Take a class you've wanted to take, try something new, or exhibit your talent(s) to the world. For example, if you love to sing and you're into music, get a YouTube account and film yourself performing a cover. You can put it on your Facebook or exhibit it somewhere else online.

The key is to get yourself out there and show the world you are amazing and that you won't be held down by anything, including a broken heart.

Make Changes You've Always Wanted To Make

He's gone, and although you didn't have any control over that, you can certainly take the reigns are reconstruct your life in other areas.

If you've hated your job for a while, find another one or be brave enough to transition to another career all together. It can absolutely be done, so stop making excuses and do it.

If you don't like your apartment or house, then move.

Have friends that are selfish, demanding, and drag you down? Get rid of them. Time to make some new buddies.

Take charge of all the aspects of your life and move in positive directions.

Success is the Best Revenge (And Gets the Most Attention)

Focus on your job. If it's just a job, make steps towards getting a real career.

If you have a real career, then put yourself in overdrive and be the best you've ever been professionally. A stellar career performance will boost your self-esteem and remind you of how awesome you are.

Once you've conquered your professional world and your hobbies, you'll have nothing but positivity and success to exhibit proudly with your ex should you run into him. This makes you desirable and intriguing, although by this point you may have decided that you don't even want him anymore.

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